How to Throw a Great Party Even When Your Broke A$$ Can’t Afford it

The Traumatized Budget
10 min readSep 22, 2019

Get over yourself and gather with your friends

Two Labrador Retriever dogs in Hawaiian leis and party hats, looking solemnly into the camera.
Rex and Fido are waiting for their invitation. Photo: Karen Arnold, Public Domain Pictures

Look, I get it: You’re ashamed to have people over. Your microwave has been broken since 2016 (reader, mine has been). Your floors are warped. Your dog sheds. You don’t have enough chairs. Plus, you’re not sure how you can afford party food and drinks when you can’t even spare the money to get your tires fixed. Frivolous stuff like this can wait, right?

Except it can’t. Think about the last time you saw some of your friends — I mean really saw them, not texted or liked their pictures of lunch on Instagram, but saw them. When was the last time you got your friends together, introduced them to one another, and took a break to enjoy their company in your own home?

Frankly, you can’t afford not to do that.

When was the last time you got your friends together, introduced them to one another, and took a break to enjoy their company in your own home?

Frankly, you can’t afford not to do that

I’ve been where you are — quite recently, in fact. At some point I gave up trying to host parties altogether because I knew we didn’t have the money to “do…

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The Traumatized Budget

I’m a 60 (😱)-something bohemian with a mountain of debt and regrets. Can I dig out before it’s all over? I brake for poets.